How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 03:59
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What are some examples of a threat to democracy in India?
Procrastinates a lot.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What does success really mean to you? Is it about happiness, money, or something else?
That's it for today.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What makes you feel guilty the most?
Making more friends is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What are some downsides to living in Newfoundland and Labrador (besides the weather)?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The #1 High-Protein Snack for Better Blood Sugar, According to a Dietitian - EatingWell
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
If you received hand-me-downs as a child, how did they make you feel?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What is your interpretation of the movie Rocky? What makes it a good film in your opinion?
Ask yourself:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why do people think Justin Bieber is worse than Joseph Stalin?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why are white women dating more black guys than ever?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Do not set goals—set systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What I need from you?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Does not procrastinate.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.